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Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim!

A letter exchange between two hearts who shared the sacred

 


Where Love Lives Again


📬 Letter 1: From the Care Receiver

They didn’t know how to say this out loud… but this letter wrote itself.

Dear You,

I don’t always know how to say thank you.

You show up with warm socks, ginger tea, a new story about your cat (or was it your neighbor’s cat?), and a smile that makes me forget the ache in my bones. And I just sit there, quiet, nodding.

But today, I want you to know this:

You didn’t just help me bathe.
You helped me remember I still matter.

You listened to me ramble about the '70s, about how TV used to mean something. You laughed at my stories (even the ones that didn’t land). And you didn’t rush the slow days.

You made my home feel safe.
You made me feel useful—even with my hands shaking.

I didn’t say it aloud then. But thank you.
From the bottom of this stubborn, slow, grateful heart.

Love,
Me (the one who forgot your birthday but remembered your kindness every single night)


📮 Letter 2: From the Caregiver

For the one who taught me how to serve with a heart wide open.

Dear Sweetheart,

You thanked me—but I don’t think you know how much I needed you.

You gave me wisdom without preaching. You shared funny stories about “back when gas was cheap,” and let me mess up your tea order every week until I finally got it right.

You taught me that slowing down is not laziness—it’s reverence.
You showed me that aging is not breaking—it's unfolding.

I remember the story about your first crush. The one with the guitar and bad hair. And I’ll never forget the recipe you swore I had to write down, even though you didn’t measure a single thing.

You trusted me with your past, your pain, your pantry…
That trust changed me.

Thank you for letting me care. For every laugh, every memory, and every moment we both pretended not to cry.

With my whole heart,
Your caregiver—and now, forever friend


🌿 Reflection Prompt:

What’s one letter you wish you’d received… or written?



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